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If You’ve Been Charged With Domestic Violence...
You’re facing more than jail time. A domestic violence charge can mean a permanent criminal record, loss of gun rights, restraining orders, and major damage in divorce or custody cases. These charges are often based on one person’s word—and the courts move quickly. If you’ve been accused, call now. The sooner your defense begins, the better chance you have of protecting your future.
Domestic violence charges in California are among the most aggressively prosecuted crimes. Once an allegation is made—whether it stems from a misunderstanding, a heated argument, or a completely false accusation—the system kicks into high gear. Police make an arrest. Protective orders are issued. Your access to your home, your children, and your freedom may be taken away overnight.
At David P. Shapiro Criminal Defense Attorneys, we understand that being accused doesn’t make you guilty. We also understand how fast a domestic violence allegation can unravel your life—and how much is at stake if you don’t fight back strategically and immediately.
We are a San Diego-based criminal defense firm that takes a no-nonsense, high-integrity approach to helping people charged with serious crimes. If you’ve been accused of domestic violence, we’re ready to listen, investigate, and go to battle on your behalf.
Domestic Violence Charges in San Diego, CA
In the State of California, domestic violence charges result when the alleged victim and the accused share an intimate relationship, have family ties, are cohabitants, or have previously been intimately involved. In cases where such an intimate relationship exists, domestic violence may be interchangeably referred to as ‘intimate partner violence’ (IPV).
Domestic violence (DV) charges may commonly be included alongside other charges, such as:
In San Diego County, domestic violence cases are taken very seriously. Victims of domestic violence and intimate partner violence may suppress their trauma, remain silent about their experiences, or try to keep their abuse a secret – all at the cost of their own psychological well-being. Many prosecutors have taken it upon themselves to act on behalf of these victims, becoming increasingly heavy-handed in their quest to convict.
However, oftentimes, vindictive, upset, or otherwise misled persons may file completely false domestic violence charges to inflict pain and punishment on someone else for a wide variety of inappropriate reasons. Regardless of the accusations, if you’ve been charged with domestic violence, you need to prepare a defense strategy before entering the courtroom, and you need an experienced defense team on your side.
What Happens After a Domestic Violence Arrest in San Diego?
There are numerous ways you can be charged with domestic violence in San Diego, and it is not always up to the complaining witness if they wish to press the charges. The District Attorney’s Office will ultimately determine whether to proceed with the filing of charges, and, oftentimes, they usually err on the side of caution and do file charges.
1. You Will Be Arrested—Even Without a Victim’s Statement
California law requires police to arrest if they believe there’s probable cause of abuse. That means if officers respond to a call and see signs of a struggle—even if the alleged victim says they don’t want to press charges—they will likely arrest someone on the spot.
2. An Emergency Protective Order Is Issued
In many cases, you’ll be barred from returning home or contacting the other person. This can even apply to mutual arguments where no one was hurt.
3. The District Attorney Files Charges
The DA’s office decides whether to press charges—not the alleged victim. Even if they recant or want to drop the case, the prosecutor can move forward based on police reports, 911 calls, or photos.
4. Your Case Moves Through the Criminal Justice System
You’ll be arraigned, and pre-trial hearings will begin. This is when your legal defense becomes critical—whether to challenge the evidence, file motions, negotiate, or take the case to trial.
The County will perform its own investigation, so should you. The team at David P. Shapiro Criminal Defense Attorneys will investigate every aspect of your case, leaving no avenue unexplored as we seek a charge reduction or outright dismissal of the charges.
In domestic violence cases, there may be several overlapping charges, conflicting statements, and a lack of firm evidence against you. Regardless of your innocence, you may still be convicted if you are unable to prove that you are.
The complex system of laws, the fervor with which domestic violence cases are prosecuted, and the severity of punishments mean you need an experienced, savvy, and dedicated legal team in your corner from the beginning.
The Potential Punishments for Domestic Violence
Each domestic violence case is unique, and as such, the punishments will vary based on a wide range of circumstances. Some of the more common punishments and penalties for domestic violence include:
Spend even longer in prison based on the specifics of your case and your background.
No two cases are ever the same – if you’d like to know more about the charges you’re facing, or if you’re ready to get the help of an experienced legal defense team on your side, contact us for your no-obligation domestic violence charge consultation today!
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How Protective Orders Can Disrupt Your Life
If you’ve been accused, you may be subject to a Criminal Protective Order (CPO), which can:
Ban you from returning to your home
Prohibit contact with your children or partner
Affect family court or custody proceedings
Lead to new criminal charges if violated, even unintentionally
At David P. Shapiro Criminal Defense Attorneys, we help clients understand and comply with court orders while seeking modifications when appropriate. In some cases, we can argue to have a peaceful contact order granted, rather than a full no-contact order, especially when the alleged victim supports it.
Defending Domestic Violence Allegations in San Diego
We don’t take a cookie-cutter approach to these cases. Every situation is different, and our strategy is built on truth, preparation, and pressure. Common defenses may include:
False Accusations: Motivated by revenge, custody battles, or relationship breakdowns.
Self-Defense: You had a legal right to defend yourself or someone else.
Accidental Injuries: No intent to harm; the incident was misinterpreted.
Lack of Evidence: No witnesses, no physical injuries, no 911 call—just one person’s word.
Recanting Victim: The alleged victim wants to tell the court the truth, but is being ignored by the prosecution.
We also bring in private investigators, forensic experts, and witness testimony when needed. Our job isn’t just to respond to the charges—it’s to outwork and outmaneuver the prosecution at every step.
Why Clients Choose David P. Shapiro Criminal Defense Attorneys
Exclusive Focus on Criminal Defense
We don’t handle divorces or personal injury—we defend people accused of crimes. Period.
Strategic, Trial-Tested Legal Tactics
We treat every case like it’s going to trial, even when we’re negotiating behind the scenes. Prosecutors know we mean business.
Deep Local Experience in San Diego
We know the prosecutors. We know the judges. And most importantly—we know what it takes to win in San Diego courtrooms.
No Judgment—Just Relentless Advocacy
You’re not a case number. You’re someone with a future worth protecting. We treat you with respect and fight for you like it’s our own freedom on the line.
Take the First Step Toward Taking Back Control
Being accused of domestic violence is overwhelming, but it’s not the end of your story. We’ve helped clients in your shoes walk away with their rights, their freedom, and their futures intact. Let us help you do the same. Contact us today for a consultation.
What happens if the alleged victim wants to drop the charges?
It doesn’t matter. In California, once a domestic violence report is filed and charges are initiated, the decision to prosecute belongs to the District Attorney—not the alleged victim. Even if they recant or refuse to cooperate, the case may still move forward based on other evidence. That’s why having an experienced defense attorney is crucial from the start.
Will I go to jail if this is my first domestic violence offense?
Possibly—but not necessarily. First-time offenders may qualify for probation, diversion programs, or plea deals that avoid jail. However, this depends on the severity of the accusation, any injuries involved, and the strength of the prosecution’s evidence. We fight for outcomes that protect your record, your rights, and your freedom—especially for first-time cases.
What should I do if I’ve been falsely accused of domestic violence?
Do not try to talk things over with the accuser or explain your side to the police. Anything you say can and will be used against you. Instead, call a criminal defense attorney immediately. False accusations are common in breakups and custody disputes, but they require fast and strategic action to expose the truth and clear your name.
Here’s What You Need to Know to Regain Control of Your Future
Charged with a crime in San Diego? Wondering how the case will affect your reputation, career, and freedom? Trying to figure out what comes next? Look no further! David’s book addresses common misconceptions and mistakes made by those charged with a crime in San Diego. Some of the chapters include topics such as:
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